Communism can be different and the example of China shows us that even a socialistic country can be open and ready for cooperation with the rest of the world. China has many common projects with the USA, Canada and European and Asian countries and it is quite easy to visit for tourists.
Chinese culture is one of the most ancient in our world and it is worth coming to this country at least once during your life. One more reason that is very important for single men is great opportunity to pick up Chinese brides and to see how different they are from the Europeans.
Crisis of relationships
Democracy and high level of social life have the other side – people feel too safe and too comfortable. They want to consume more and more because they lack adrenaline buzz and just some extreme and risk. Hedonism is kind of a social disease in the Western society as well as puerelism and careerism. If we compare Chinese women to European or American ones we will see that the latters prefer good job and decent money to family and children.
A lot of women in the West are so called “child-free” – people who see no sense in having kids. One does not have to be a good scientists and does not need higher education to understand that such an attitude to the basic values lead to dead end.
Eastern traditions and right bringing up make Chinese brides for marriage the best mothers and wives on Earth. They sincerely believe in happy family life and the situation when it is the man who leads the whole family and determines its life is absolutely satisfactory. It does not mean that Chinese girls do not need respect or that they can be “dumb dolls” – vice versa, they need respect and care much more than the Western women who are not bothered with domestic duties and kids.
Pickup in China
It would be naïve to look at China with European or American eyes – it is a different world that lives with its own rules and laws. Be aware of Chinese public culture. It means that you should not be too persistent in picking up girls and you had better not do it right in the street or in any other place where a lot of adult and older people are.
But don’t think that Chinese dating is impossible or that locals are boring because it would be a very big mistake. They often throw parties and if you want to attend one we would recommend you to hold closer to all that student and young life. Be sociable and open-minded and Chinese people will gladly become your friends. They are very friendly here and all the foreigners returning from China tell a lot about Chinese hospitability.
The main problem in communication with the local people can be their bad knowledge of English. However, some experienced tourists who can be often seen in Chinese marriage agencies say that the locals actually understand English quite well and can say quite many things but the main problem is thick accent. Chinese language is based on intonations but not on the sounds and that is why Chinese accent in English is so funny and sometimes even weird. The good thing is that a couple of weeks will be enough for you to get used to such an accent.
It is very easy to find a Chinese girl online or even in the streets of your own town or city. Thousands of Chinese families have migrated to Europe and North America so before going to a dating site it would be clever of you to check Facebook firstly.
Chinese women who are looking for a foreign partner usually have positive attitude to meeting people online. It will not be very hard for you to find a nice girl and invite her for a date. Anyway, you both will get very useful experience.